📌 Welcome to The Other Side of Quiet: Why I'm writing the things we don't say out loud.
- Sarah Shurley
- May 7, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: May 22, 2025

Hi. I’m so glad you’re here.
This blog was born in the in-between moments. In the silence between nap times, the late-night scrolls, and the small windows of stillness between parenting, running a small business, studying and trying (somehow) to still be me.
I call it The Other Side of Quiet because that’s where most of my real thoughts live, in the corners of life no one posts about, the questions that come with no easy answers, the stories we carry but rarely share. This is where silence ends, and real-talk begins.
I’m currently a stay-at-home mum, a small business owner, and a university student, weaving between emotional labour, unpaid care, paid work, and the quiet pull of my own dreams. It’s fulfilling. It’s beautiful. It’s a life full of meaning and moments that matter. It’s also bone-deep exhausting, a delicate balancing act, and complicated in ways no one seems to be talking about.
Here, I’ll be writing about the stuff we don’t talk about enough:
The heartbreak of miscarriage and the silence around it
The unspoken things in Relationships everyone goes through
The crushing societal expectations women carry without even realising it
The weird guilt of wanting more (or less)
And everything in between.
This isn’t a space for advice or polished perfection. It’s a space for honesty. For naming the things that feel hard, heavy, or just weirdly unspoken. If it’s not something you’d usually bring up at the school gate or on your business Instagram, I probably want to write about it.
I don’t have it all figured out. But I’ve learned that saying things out loud, even awkward, painful, or unpopular things, is a kind of quiet rebellion. And sometimes, it's the first step toward healing, connection, or just finally breathing out.
Thanks for being here. I hope you find something that resonates. Or at least makes you feel a little less alone.
See you on the other side,
Sarah



What a wonderful way to connect honestly with people who have gone or are going through.